Showing posts with label classroom management. Show all posts
Showing posts with label classroom management. Show all posts

Wednesday, 4 December 2013

Authority with Grace - stolen cell phones, cheating on tests and misbehaviour


The most common reoccurring ethical issue that I have experienced in the classroom have been concerns regarding student attitudes to school and work. When I first started teaching, I confess that I thought that the most effective way to deal with a disruptive student in my classroom was to send them to the office. And as I discovered from the first student that I sent to the office for acting out in class, that this type of discipline was not discipline at all. The tone of  this interaction was not appreciated by the student and in fact it was ineffective in shaping the classroom environment that I was trying to create.

I remember a fellow new teacher suffered from the same misconception that I had, and in her case the office was more direct, they sent that student right back to the classroom, telling her to manage the misbehavior herself. 

Sending students out of the classroom is often not the most ethical way of dealing with student misbehavior. Instead, our most ethical response depends on our ability to decipher the cause of the misbehavior. This ability depends in a large part on emotional intelligence. For example, students can motivated to misbehave:
  • Because they do not know what the proper behavior is
  • For no other reason than they are having a bad day
  • They are bored with a certain subject
  • They feel uninvolved with the classroom or classroom decisions and feel it is an unfair environment
  • Their teacher seems to expect negative behavior from them
  • They want attention, power, or revenge
  • They have given up on themselves and feel anxious or inadequate.
Since I have a lot of control over what goes on inside my classroom and little control over what goes on outside, I began to focus on how I interacted with students while instructing them.

First, I started by incorporating the philosophy of inclusion in the classroom (using the Tribes philosophy).
The Tribes philosophy focuses on incorporating activities that are designed to create an atmosphere of respect and responsibility in the classroom.

From the first day of school, I discuss the concepts of respect, responsibility and participation, and develop both curriculum and community learning goals for each lesson. Immediately I noticed that the students responded very positively to these changes, the quality of our discussion improved, and the quantity of disruptions dramatically decreased over time.

An important part of the Tribes  process is setting up four key classroom rules which govern our interactions. These are:
  • Mutual Respect
  • Attentive Listening
  • Appreciation - no Put-downs
  • The Right to Pass 
The idea is that through discussion, the students and teachers can reach the stage of community where students and teachers can work together creatively to contribute their talents to the classroom.

 

Restorative Practices

My second step was becoming trained in restorative practices. Restorative Practices has deepened my practical understanding of classroom leadership.

Restorative practices focuses on the art of seeking to solve problems collaboratively, instead of seeking to solve problems by placing blame.  The premise of restorative practices is that students are happier, more cooperative and productive and more likely to make positive changes when those in authority do things with them, rather than to them or for them. Restorative practices is proactive, rather than reactive, and it works to improve and strengthen human relationships by repairing harm. Students feel fairly treated and are less likely to re-offend. 

Since I started using restorative practices in my classroom, a lot of what I choose to do in terms of classroom management has to do with involving the student into the problem solving process and re-affirming our relationship, rather than relying on punishment as a social regulator.

When I encounter an behavioral dilemma, the main tool in my arsenal are the restorative questions. These questions provide an opportunity for everyone involved to tell about the incident from their perspective and how it affected them. Everyone gets to speak, and because they feel heard, I frequently get apologies from students and the process ensures they do not repeat their actions that caused the harm. The their behavior has changed and our student-teacher relationship has strengthened. My classroom feels much friendlier.

The restorative questions are purposely scripted, and provide all involved with an opportunity to speak and listen to one another in an atmosphere of safety and equality.
Restorative practices has helped me to successfully mediate a variety of classroom conflict: from stolen textbooks, cheating on tests, finding missing cell phones, dealing with poor word choices and excessive lates.

Teachers face ethical dilemmas on a daily, weekly and monthly basis. Our focus as teachers is to provide equal opportunity for education for all. One size does not fit all. In teaching, what is considered the most ethical often comes down to determining what is in the best interest of the particular student involved with the situation. Both the Tribes Philosophy and Restorative Practices have been critical in shaping my understanding of classroom leadership.

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Thursday, 20 June 2013

Anxiety and the Classroom - helping students to move through alarm to courage

Gordon Neufeld, a developmental psychologist from Vancouver, British Columbia, conveys a warmth that is natural, welcoming and supportive when he speaks. I have heard him speak twice, once at the Peel District Board Office during a PD session, the second at the Waldorf Academy in downtown Toronto last year.

Dr. Neufeld speaks on anxiety.  Just saying the word anxiety conjures the feeling of sweaty palms, a dry throat, butterflies and a pounding head. These are natural symptoms of our body`s response to our thoughts of alarm and unease, when we are faced with a perceived danger. In his talk, Dr. Neufeld first points out that anxiety is meant to be beneficial. The feelings of anxiety are our natural, internal activated alarm system.

Gordon Neufeld estimates that today, 1 in 5 children suffer from moderate to severe anxiety. Sometimes a school subject itself may create alarm in a student. I have taught anxious students in my math class.  Math anxiety is “a feeling of tension, apprehension, or fear that interferes with math performance." Every day, when the class time approaches, I may see that student begin to exhibit the symptoms of alarm. If there is no intervention, their feelings can lead to decreased motivation, resulting in math avoidance. Ultimately their confidence in their ability plummets. It's a reinforcing downward spiral. It's a real problem, for the teacher and the student, because an alarmed state prevents learning. Learning requires a tranquil mind.

So how do children cope. These students try to deal with their feelings of alarm through avoidance and distraction. Common coping mechanisms can include:
  • Refusing tasks
  • Making frequent trips to the washroom 
  • Developing attendance problems
  • Engaging in intensive procrastination such as using technology
  • Creating distractions by performing a 'show' for their peers
  • Developing physical complaints such as stomachaches, headaches, fatigue. 
  • Becoming aggressive or defiant
The good news is that a teacher can step in to support the student in resolving their alarm and help return them to a state of calm, so they can learn.

Gordon Neufelds key message is that by understanding the natural process of alarm in our bodies, we can help children to overcome their feelings of alarm and move forward, beyond the fear and tears and into courage.

Neufeld describes that the three possible outcomes of our internal alarm system are caution, which if not resolved, moves into a state of adaptation (to the situation, creating a new steady state) and, if not resolved, finally moving through into courage. This is described by the image below (taken I believe, from a Neufeld talk):


  1. Alarm - At the top of the diagram you can see the child becoming alarmed in response to perceiving a danger. This activates the internal 'alarm system'.
  2. Caution is the first response after a child feels alarmed. Caution is a natural and good response to an alarm, it allows the child to focus and pay attention. Caution can be resolved once a child realizes the situation they are in is not dangerous after all, and they can relax from their hyper-attentive state.
  3. If however the situation causing alarm is persistent unavoidable, the child moves from caution into the stage of futility. Tears are usually released and this leads to adaptation and the child experiences release and becomes restful at this point. At the stage of adaptation, the alarm system is internally recalibrated and the child experiences a calm state.  This is a good outcome of the alarm process, the child has successfully resolved their alarm by adapting to the new situation.
  4. If adaptation stage is not reached, the child will need courage to continue to face the alarm-filled situation that confronts them. Courage isn’t possible without mixed feelings and children are not capable of experiencing mixed feelings until the age of 7 or 8. If a child reaches courage, the child becomes brave. They are able to  persevere in the face of difficulty, work toward their goals.  Reaching this stage frequently requires an adult's help.
Teachers are an important support in helping students develop productive strategies to cope with alarm in classroom situations. Neufeld suggests specific strategies based on the natural alarm process.

First, Neufeld suggest anxiety reduction behaviors that  relieve anxiety and turns off the alarm. These can include:
  • Physical activity 
  • Eating
  • Focusing on a sensory input like a squeeze ball
  • Doing relaxation exercises
 These behaviors temporarily relieve anxiety and turn off the alarm.

Second, Gordon Neufeld’s suggests anxiety can be addressed by reducing the separation the child is facing. Strategies include creating a a classroom that is a place of rest and safety. For a child safety means that as teachers we can first accept our role as an alpha figure in a child's life so the child can relax. This is a state of being that influences our approach to classroom management in a fundamental way. It means that teachers:
Until we meet again.

Sources:
The Neufeld Institute
http://sensationalchildren.blogspot.ca/
Gordon Neufeld: Making Sense of Anxiety in Children and Youth - an hour-long presentation